Sometimes in life we can feel only half alive. It can feel like important parts of us are missing, yet can't quite put our finger on what or why we are feeling not 100%. We can feel confused, with a sense of unease for no particular reason. We can feel like we are pretending to be happy, and not know what it is that is missing. We can feel disconnected, and unsure of our way forwards.
This sense of not being present, and of feeling like something is missing, can feel vague, however these feelings are very real. They are a symptom of the truth that is felt intuitively, as an awareness that nudges us and peeps through at times when we least expect it.
We may know absolutely that we need to change and heal. We know that we are not who we used to be, yet even though we know this, still we do not have the foggiest idea what to do about it. We know that we are not functioning on all cylinders, and we realise that we need to change if we want to become fully alive, yet even the idea of change brings us immense anxiety, and the idea of being more lively makes us feel even more tired and hopeless.
At certain times in life, happiness can feel far away, and we can feel depleted of passion, interest, and connection. We can feel like nothing 'fits' any more, and what we used to love can feel uninspiring. We can think that something may be wrong with us when the exact opposite is true. The reality is that there are times upon the soul path where this sense of disconnection, and of being part of life yet not in life, are good signs, even when these things make us feel very strange and uncomfortable.
At times such as this, it is important to realise that we may be going through change that is being delivered to us by our soul. Our soul is talking to us through our intuition and by bringing changes into us and into our life. It makes sense that we have no idea that this is what is happening because we usually are not connected to our soul, and most people do not think about our lives as being soul-guided.
Most do not naturally think, "Oh, I am feeling disconnected from life, and I no longer have any passion for what and who I used to love - ah, that must be my soul bringing changes into my life!"
No, most people do not even think about their soul. And yet, the truth is that our soul is with us all the time, continually - because we are an expression of our soul. So, if you are experiencing these kinds of feelings, then this would be an excellent time to receive the messages from your soul, and to find out more about what is happening in your life. When you receive the information and insights about your life and how and why it is changing, then this will help you understand what is happening, from which point you can feel more connected and settled. This form of intuitive guidance can be so beneficial.
At other times, when we are feeling uneasy and unsure, then these feelings can be related to the events that have been happening in our lives. Perhaps we have lost someone dear to us. Perhaps we are recovering from an abusive relationship. Perhaps we suffered neglect and abandonment when we were little. So many experiences in life have the ability to drain us of life-force, happiness, confidence, and wellbeing, and can affect our lives long after the events have taken place. Usually, we do not automatically connect our past with the feelings that we are having in the present.
Then there can be times when our feelings of tiredness and depletion may have a physical cause. So, if you are feeing unusually tired and depleted it can be a good idea to visit the doctor and have some check-ups and blood tests done, to determine that all it well. If, following these check-ups, the feelings of tiredness, sadness, sorrow, lack of confidence and other feelings that affect our wellbeing continue, then it is time to really listen to ourselves, to find out what might be going on.
If we feel emotionally blocked, and notice that we do not feel deeply, and sense that our emotional range and expression is being somehow restricted, then this can indicate that some of our emotions truly are not present. Yes, our emotions can indeed become locked away. When our emotions are locked away, then it follows that we cannot feel and express in ways that we sense we could or should be able to do. We can have difficulty finding our happiness, and passion, and our ability to care.
At such times it can be highly beneficial to listen to ourselves. When we pay attention to our feelings that something is missing, we can then recognise that something actually is missing. Recognising this truth can be reassuring, even if we are a uncomfortable with it. The reality is that knowing the truth helps us to feel more clear so that we can then make necessary changes, if we wish. So often, we can dismiss our feelings as being not important and yet, when we do this, we are in fact dismissing ourselves as unimportant. So, when we come to listen to what we are actually feeling, and take notice, and find that what we are feeling is accurate and true, then we are being kind to ourselves and giving our feelings the recognition that helps us to feel better. And, once we are able to understand ourselves better, then we can sit with that information and allow ourselves to accept our truth.
The fact is that we can actually exist as only a part of ourselves, and still be successful. Even if we are feeling disconnected, lacking in connection, vague, and uneasy, we can still function relatively well, and get on with things. This is good because there are many times when we need to be able to keep going. And yet, this is usually not a long-term or sustainable way of living. We know when we are not being truly ourselves, even if we are giving the appearance that this is 'who' we are. We are aware when much of us is 'missing', and we know that it does not feel good or make us happy being this way. We want more, we want to feel genuine peace, happiness, and wellbeing.
Thankfully, our sense of unease can help us, because it can lead us to accepting the truth that something actually does needs to change. The beauty is that, when we realise that we cannot continue to exist as only part of the person that we truly are, and that we want to do more than just exist and pretend to be happy - then the way to real change and growth can begin. This way will come to us, and it will help us to discover what it means to be truly happy and to experience life as our true and authentic self.
The stage that we reach, when we become aware that something needs to change, is so important. It is this recognition and realisation that change is needed, that helps the changes to come. In reality, we don't need to know exactly what it is that needs to change - all we need to know is that something needs to change. Why is this so? The answer is that the knowingness that change is needed is what enables changes to come, because we can then welcome change and invite change into our lives. When we do this, then we are alinging ourselves with what is already happening in our lives: change.
When we accept the changes that are happening, then those changes will be perfect for us - even when we ourselves cannot imagine what those changes are. The truth is that we do not need to know what is going to happen, and this is the beauty that happens when soul-guided change starts to come into our lives.
The journey of understanding the deeper reason for changes that are happening in our lives, of finding the answers that are needed, and of bringing new solutions that bring greater happiness and empowerment, is a journey that forms the foundations of my work with clients. This is vitally important work because the answers and solutions bring a path of healing that helps each client find themselves. Clients are reunited with themselves in ways that allow peace and wellbeing to return to them. Soul Detecting is my business name, it is true. At the same time this name expresses what the way in which I facilitate clients, like a detective, to help them find their missing parts, and to reclaim their soul.
So often, there is the belief that we cannot heal. People tend to say, "That's life", and give up. So many people seem to have the belief that they will be forever broken, in grief, and in survival mode. This belief is understandable, and yet it blocks new potentials and stifles true healing. Yes, at times we can feel utterly defeated, without energy to continue, and completely lost. Times like these are a part of the course of human life. And yet, what appears to have been largely forgotten is that there is always a path to healing of the kind that brings the return of happiness, passion, and joy.
In truth, there is always an answer, and a path to new happiness is always available. Healing and reconnection is an option and a potential that always exists. It may not be in the way that we expect, yet so much of what we had in the past and that we loved and lost, can again be part of our lives - in ways that we cannot even imagine. The reality is that we have ourselves, and we have love, and we have experienced love and been loved, and the truth is that love never dies. We are, at core, love, and love is the key and the answer to healing and resolving all pain and suffering - if we are willing to find the lock and choose to open that door.
So many seem to have forgotten this reality, and some ever have adopted pain and suffering as their main focus. And yet, new paths to happiness and wholeness and living fully, in ways that are relevant to you, are always available.
We are not meant to suffer needlessly. We are not built to have suffering as our main focus and main experience. It seems that some may have forgotten this truth. Or, maybe were never told about this truth before now. We are meant to learn, to grow, and sometimes we need to go through hardship and suffering, in order to break free of restrictions and enable the flow of new experiences to enter our lives. Of course, we can become stuck in old patterns that bring us repeated pain, and painful memories from the past can become stuck in our memory like a loop going round and round. We can feel hopeless and lost, and incapable of moving out of the past. And yet, no creature on earth is able to stay stuck in the past forever. To attempt to do this would be like trying to stop the whole universe - an impossible thing.
The one constant in life is that all things change, and the flow of new experiences is unstoppable. Therefore, when we are able to find the courage and the trust to say "Yes" to change, then we can find new doors opening that can help us heal and find greater happiness in our lives. When we are able to adapt, and to accept (and acceptance does not mean we enjoy what has happened; it simply means that we accept the fact that it has truly happened), and to make peace with us, with our path, and with our past, then a new reality can dawn in our lives.
With dedication and trust, we can listen to our gentle nudges from within and open the door to finding new ways that bring growth, change, and new experiences that heal and nurture us. When we can choose this for ourselves, and have the wise support of those around us who can show us the way, then we will be making advancements that will help us to change our lives for the better.
The truth is that you are not trapped, and the way to greater fulfilment and growth emerges for all who seek it. By choosing to find your way, then that new path will come to you. It will be your path, and it will bring you the exact opportunities and experiences that will help you become stable, whole, happy, and truly you.
Only you can choose to change your life for good - and then your life can bring you the change that is good for you!
So be it, and so, it is.
Sara
It would by my absolute honour to guide and assist you upon your path with Heartfelt Soul Guidance.
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